So, my last encounter didn’t go so well. I met this guy off of Eharmony and he pissed me off so much that I couldn’t even go through with a first date. If someone upsets you before you even meet, I would say that’s a problem.
Don’t get me wrong I tried. I tried to look past the fact that every one of his emails had “my ex did this and she did that”. Guys look, we really don’t want to hear how bad your ex treated you. That’s just something you are just going to have to get over on your own. You need time to heal. I think the last straw for me was when me and this guy were discussing alone time. He said “I don’t have that much experience with alone time, I was always with my ex because I had to make sure she wasn’t doing anything sneaky”. Fuck. Now this guy will be up my ass 24/7? No thanks.
Anyway, he had really pissed me off also the night before when he told me he had a problem with my best friend being a guy. I have a whole post dedicated to that, lol. But I calmed down and try to look past it, because honestly, I didn’t want to be alone. But you know when it comes down to it, I would rather be alone than be with someone who will give me grief. So, after a long warm hearted email about forgiveness and self discovery I ended things in an email. He in turn took it as “I feel like I’ve just been dumped”. Even though he ignored everything I said about healing and forgiveness, I guess he got the idea. Oh well, I hope things works out for him and his next match and he takes the things I said into consideration.
Anyway, its time for a break. Time to sit with my friend bipolar and have a drink. Cheers everyone!