So yeah, 5 a.m. and I am still fucking mad. Eharmony you set me up with a doozy this time. This guy seriously doesn’t know who he is dealing with. No wonder people are angry and bitter at online dating. Girls and guys.
So this guy I met on Eharmony has MAJOR trust issues. He was cheated on, and his ex-wife did a number on him. Look my best friend is a guy. Get over it. He tells me this long sob story in an email about how his wife did this and his ex did that. Apparently he got burned by two untrustworthy women. So how the fuck is that my problem now? I basically told this guy he doesn’t belong on a website looking for love if he has all these trust issues and excess baggage. Really, honestly, I wasn’t really into him anyway because he comes with a 7 and an 11 year old. I don’t want to sign up for that.
So I should be happy, but why am I so fucking mad? Is it the bipolar in me? I don’t know. Maybe cause this douche thought he could tell me who my friends could be, and I will be forever haunted by what his exes did. His last line was classic:
“I am sorry if I am making this hard but I don’t know anymore. How can I know if someone is not lying and being sneaky?”
Boo hoo. Cry me a fucking river. Really? Here’s a clue, get to know someone before you get involved too heavily with someone. Even then they still might cheat. Men cheat. Women cheat. Its just what we do. Granted that’s not me because I have never cheated or have been cheated on. But damn. I told him he should find himself first and be comfortable in his own skin before he decides to look for a girlfriend. I don’t like being put on the spot, or questioned or fucking told what to do.
Oh well, I guess I will be alone forever. 33 and ticking. Time for another drink. Fuck.